Dating pickup lines, do they work?

So should a guy make an effort to learn "pickup lines," or does that stuff not really work when it comes to meeting women?

Many guys put too much emphasis on learning "lines" and "techniques" when they are first starting down the path to success with women.

Lines and techniques can be helpful when you're first starting out... and some of them work pretty damn well!

But the truth is you won't achieve the massive success you desire until it comes from inside of you.

I've begun to see a pattern that almost all guys go through when learning this stuff:

Stage 1: Uses the lines and techniques he learns to "get out there" and get started. Experiences some success, and learns a lot.

Stage 2: Internalizes the right attitudes and beliefs, and starts to experience "natural success." Uses lines every once in a while, but doesn't rely on them.

Stage 3: Learns to attract women naturally and effortlessly. Makes up his own lines and techniques as he goes.

Keep this in mind, and use the lines and techniques you learn as "training wheels" to help take you to where you want to be… but make your ultimate goal to become a guy who "naturally" attracts women.

What's the right attitude to have when you are meeting a woman?

You should be totally detached from the "outcome" of any situation with a woman.

What that means is that no matter what she says or does, your life goes on the same way.

If a woman rejects you, it is no big deal.

If a woman goes home with you, it is also no big deal.

Try to become the guy who doesn't care either way. This attitude of indifference is magnetically attractive to women.

They can sense it the moment they start talking to a man.

But this isn't a way you can "act" or something you can say. It has to come from inside of you.

Make it a point to avoid the "scarcity" way of thinking at all costs.

Stay committed to your overall goal of success with women, but don't worry about success with any one woman.

There will always be another. Always.