People often view flirting and revealing their personal traits along the way as a big step that one doesn’t enter into lightly. And that’s mostly true if you’re making your first intimate relationship with the opposite sex, or you’ve been single for a long time.
Use non-verbal communication for attracting women
However one thing people often do not consider is simply being yourself will make you seem most natural.
The closest that you can come to being natural is to use non-verbal communication. You can definitely change what is natural.
Examine this list and see if you think you have all the essential skills:
1. Use non-verbal communication to express your personal traits
2. Identify your personality traits - figure out how to apply it to flirting
3. Know to initiate flirting - direct approach
So, let's evaluate all-important steps one by one!
Pick the best of multitude of your personality qualities
We all have a multitude of personality qualities, each of varying power. For attracting women’s attention and hence get a chance to flirt you need to show off some of them. In certain situations, you can choose which of these traits you wish to bring out.
Bringing out a trait that you've never used in the situation before takes some work, but will eventually become natural.
Identify your personality traits - figure out how to apply it to flirting
The key to changing your social behavior is identifying your personality traits. First, figure out that you have it, and then figure out how to apply it to the situation that needs it.
Making an eye contact could be your effective way to meet women. Very son you’ll get a clue if she’s interested in your company.
Initiate flirting - direct approach
More direct approach works well if you have build up some self-confidence already. Sure it takes some practice even experience first.
You may just say something to her. If she's interested, the only thing she'll notice is that you are talking to her - you don't have to impress her with something witty and worldly.
Relationships built on initial intimacy
Gradually work up to a small bit of intimacy - a light touch, something whispered. Try to imagine how you would like her to flirt with you and then do exactly that.
Bottom line: most of the women out there are at least as nervous and shy as you are. It’s far more comfortable to sit back and wait for the first move, made by the other part. The sad thing about relationships is that you could wait for a long time.
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